On the following pages you will find a wealth of self-help resources, including books, online
resources and support networks that can be used in addition to our work during our sessions
together.
Amen, Daniel G.
Change Your Brain, Change Your Life:
The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Anger, and
Impulsiveness
In his pioneering new book, Change Your Brain, Change Your Life, Dr. Amen explains
how you can "optimize" your brain to achieve your fullest potential. Using state-of-the-art
technology, Dr. Amen has spent the last decade helping thousands of patients understand how
the way their brains are wired can affect their thoughts and emotions.
Arterburn, Stephen
Addicted to "Love:" Understanding
Dependencies of the Heart: Romance, Relationships, and Sexes
Stephen Arterburn examines what this "love" addiction looks like, who it afflicts and what you can do if you suspect that your spouse,
friend, or family member maybe be suffering from it. Arterburn points the way to
psychological and spiritual healing.
Baker, Dan; Stauth, Cameron
What Happy People Know
Dan Baker argues that people can escape the destructive cycles in their lives and teach
themselves to be happy. By drawing on several different tools for happiness, Baker points
out, you can begin to overcome the brain's predisposition for difficult, stressful times.
Beattie, Melody
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling
Others and Start Caring for Yourself
Where recovery began for many people, this inspiring, straightforward, personal explanation
of what codependency is and who has it gives listeners the option to change unhealthy
behaviors and stressful relationships as they rediscover hope, guidance, and
encouragement.
Bradshaw, John E.
Healing the Shame that Binds You
Bradshaw shows us how toxic shame is the core problem in our compulsions, co-dependencies,
addictions and the drive to superachieve, resulting in the breakdown in the family
systems and our inability to go forward with our lives.
On the Family
In this insightful and fresh look at the family as a dynamic, emotional unit, Bradshaw examines
functional and dysfunctional families in order to highlight the need for an emotional and
ideological democracy in the family as opposed to more restraining models of the family dyanmic.
Bolles, Richard Nelson
What Color is Your Parachute?
For more than 25 years, this "Cadillac of job-search books" has been the best-selling book
of its kind. Updated and revised annually, Parachute is essentially two books in one:
a practical manual for job-hunters and a guide for career-changers.
Bourne, Edmund J.
The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook
This practical workbook contains a complete discussion of phobias and anxiety disorders and
suggests step-by-step methods of treating them. Each chapter concludes with a summary of
"Things to Do" and a list of suggested further reading. Questionnaires, exercises, and
charts are featured throughout the book.
Burns, David
The Feeling Good Handbook
Dr. David Burns is one of the prime developers of cognitive therapy, a fast-acting,
drug-free treatment for designed to help the clinically depressed. In The Feeling
Good Handbook, he adapts cognitive therapy to deal with the wide range of everyday
problems that plague so many (chronic nervousness, panic attacks, phobias, and feelings
of stress, guilt, or inferiority). The Feeling Good Handbook teaches how to remove the
mental obstacles that bar you from success--from test anxiety and fear of public
speaking to procrastination and self-doubt.
Ten Days to Self-Esteem
In David Burn's Ten Days, he offers an innovative way to not only identify the sources of low
self-esteem and changes in mood but help you to develop a clear path to a more positive
outlook on yourself and life as a whole.
Carnes, Patrick
Don't Call it Love
In Dr. Carnes's comprehensive look at sexual addiction and other forms of compulsive, self-destructive sexual behavior,
he combines clinical insight with stories from people who are recovering and have recovered, aiming all the while to
provide a means to both shed light on those affected by sexual addiction and offer a way to redevelop a healthy,
fulfilling sexuality.
A Gentle Path Through the Twelve Steps
This book is perfect for anyone looking to recover and cope with difficulties in life. Carnes seeks to apply
the twelve-step model used in many recovery groups to any and all moments in life where mature, thoughtful
reflection and recovery is necessary.
Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
Dr. Carnes exmaines the tangled web of love, addictive sex, hate, and fear that is sometimes found in family
relationships. He offers a way for addicts and codependents to deal with their sexual compulsions as well as
their lives as a whole.
Chodron, Pema
When Things Fall Apart
The head of a Tibetan Monestary in Canada, Pema Chodron offers a unique approach to coping with loss and uncertainty,
all from a profoundly Buddhist standpoint. She weaves seminal concepts of Buddhist thought into
coping with very modern issues with a goal in mind to face both the good and bad.
Davis, Laura
The Courage to Heal Workbook:
For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
As a step-by-step guide through the healing process, this workbook will touch a deep
nerve and provide the same directional support as its companion bestseller Courage to
Heal. The workbook is a combination of checklists, open-ended questions, writing exercises,
art projects, and activities.
Dumont, Raeann
The Sky is Falling: Understanding
and Coping with Phobias, Panic and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders
An authoritative guide to understanding and coping with a range of phobias, panic, and
obsessive-compulsive disorders draws on case studies and the authors' expertise to
help readers recognize anxiety disorders, manage symptoms, and find treatment.
Eisenberg, Arlene and Howard; Mooney, Al J.
The Recovery Book
The Recovery Book attempts to explain exactly what a recovering addict and his or her
family will face during every stage of living clean and sober, with information on
support groups, family relationships, temptations, and hundreds of questions and
answers.
Greenspan, Miriam
Healing Through the Dark Emotion
In this look at grief and despair, Miriam Greenspan poses the idea that these difficult
emotions are not things that one should try and suppress or medicate but tools that can
be used to stimulate growth in almost all facets of life.
Hay, Louise
I Can Do It
Hay has designed a book that covers almost every aspect of life, framing her ideas in the
context of affirmations-- every single thought a person has and every word he or she speaks.
By using this affirmations correctly, Hay suggests, it is possible to improve virtually
anything about your own life.
You Can Heal Your Life
In You Can Heal Your Life Hay helps readers take responsibility and control of their
own reality and afflictions, seeking to change destructive thought patterns in favor of
more healthy, happy view of self and the world.
Hendrix, Harville
Getting the Love You Want
Getting the Love You Want Workbook
Hendrix's book draws not only on his extensive research but is in part inspired by his own failed marriage. He takes a multi-faceted look at relationships and marriage and
uses his findings as a means to help transform your relationships into bonds that are deep, passionate, and lasting.
Hershorn, Michael
60-Second Anger Management
Learn to manage your anger quickly and effectively, as well as help mend relationships and a sense
of self that is often damaged by anger and ineffective communication.
Hollis, James
Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life
For men and women who have reached the middle of their lives, Hollis's book can be seen as
a thoughtful call to not only face but embrace the questions and the mystery of life. Hollis
advocates careful self-reflection and a reconnection with yourself as an individual.
Hunter, Mic
Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims
of Sexual Abuse
A long overdue book by a psychologist who has extensive clinical experience treating male
victims of child sexual abuse, it explodes the myth that sexual abuse of male children is
rare, or that the consequences are less serious than for girls.
Hope and Recovery: A Twelve-Step
Guide for Healing from Compulsive Sexual Behavior
Hope & Recovery is the current basic text of SAA (Sex Addicts Anonymous, a twelve-step
group for sexually recovering people). The book is designed for individuals who feel
that they are sexually compulsive and are looking for information on the addictive disease
and "tools" to use to become and remain free from sexual addiction.
Keyes, Ken
Handbook to Higher Consciousness
Ken Keyes' book explores how to change the unconscious wiring of the mind in order to live a
life that is truly desirable and overcome the obstacles that will inevitably arise.
Richo, David
How to Be an Adult
Using the metaphor of the heroic cycle, Richo describes the process of arriving at both spiritual and psychological maturity. By discussing
challenges to adulthood such as fear and guilt and also the difficulty in balancing interpersonal relationship with personal
boundaries, Richo explores effective paths to a healthy self-esteem and also a developed sense of intimacy.
Robinson, Bryan E.
Chained to the Desk
By examining work addiction from a mature, psychological standpoint, Robinson sheds
light on a common problem among working men and women that can have serious consequences
in all aspects of life.
Schneider, Burt and Jennifer
Sex, Lies, and Forgiveness
A practical, compassionate guide to explore and help heal relationships for individuals, couples,
and families dealing with sex addiction
Schwartz, Jeffrey M.; Beyette, Beverly
Brain Lock: Free Yourself From Obsessive-Compulsive
Behavior
In Brain Lock, Jeffrey M. Schwartz presents a simple four-step method for overcoming OCD
that is so effective, it's now used in academic treatment centers throughout the world.
Using the real-life stories of actual patients, Brain Lock explains this revolutionary
method and provides readers with the inspiration and tools to free themselves from
` their psychic prisons and regain control of their lives.
Sheehy, Gail
New Passages: Mapping Your Life Across Time
The old demarcations and descriptions of adulthood-- beginning at twenty-one and ending
at sixty-five-- are hopelessly out of date. In New Passages, Sheehy discovers and
maps out a completely new frontier-- a Second Adulthood in middle life.
Wilson, R. Reid
Don't Panic: Taking Control of Anxiety Attacks
Panic: Nearly everyone has experienced it at some time or another, but in the form of a
panic attack, it can be incapacitating. With insight and compassion, psychologist R.
Reid Wilson, Ph.D., a leading expert on panic attacks, offers an accessible and
practical self-help program for reducing and eliminating these attacks, providing a
detailed five-step strategy for controlling the moment of panic.
Woititz, Janet Geringer
Adult Children of Alcoholics
Written with specifically the adult children of alcoholics in mind, Woititz's book delves into how the journey begins for many
and also what she has found--after over a decade of research-- to work well in recovery.